#68 Holiday Stress SOS: Your Survival Guide for Family Gatherings and School Breaks

Do you ever find yourself dreading the "well-meaning" advice from relatives who just don’t get it? Are you worried that the chaos of school breaks will lead to more meltdowns than magic for your struggling reader? Today, we’re getting real about the sensory overload and academic pressure that often hide behind the festive lights as I bring you your survival guide for family gatherings and school breaks! 

In this episode, I share my proven frameworks for shutting down the "they just need to practice more" comments and explaining dyslexia in 30 seconds flat. We’ll dive into which routines are non-negotiable for a dyslexic brain and why I’m giving you full permission to ditch the holiday worksheets entirely, along with so much more. 

By the end of this one, you’ll know exactly what you need to do to scout your "quiet zones," recruit family allies, and ensure this season is defined by connection rather than comparison.


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Topics Covered: 

  • A helpful response framework you can use for handling awkward holiday comments [2:37]
  • Why you need to find your family allies ahead of time and not go at it all alone [4:11]
  • Which routines to maintain to keep your child regulated while school is out for the holidays [4:53]
  • The real reasons why your child needs a true academic break and a reminder that you absolutely can give yourself permission to skip the worksheets [5:54]
  • Specific signs of sensory overload and social fatigue that often hide behind "bad behavior" during loud, bright, and crowded holiday events [7:15]
  • How to approach building an emergency strategy and exit plan for gatherings over the holidays [8:19]

Key Takeaways: 

  • That your child will remember feeling supported and understood long after they forget the details of a specific tradition.
  • Why having an exit plan is a powerful strategy to help protect your child’s nervous system.
  • How to decouple intelligence from decoding and use a simple mental shift to advocate for your child. 

 

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