#62 The Forgotten Family Members: How Dyslexia Affects Siblings Who Don't Struggle
Has your family life been taken over by one child's learning differences? Do you worry about the invisible impact on your other children who seem to be "the easy ones"? We often pour so much energy into supporting our dyslexic children that we forget about their siblings. Today, we're talking about the overlooked family members in the dyslexia journey: the brothers and sisters who might feel invisible, confused, or even resentful.
In this episode you’ll discover why they may feel guilty about their own success, take on adult responsibilities, or struggle with a feeling that their needs always come second. This is a conversation that will help you learn how to navigate these complex family dynamics, talk about learning differences in an age-appropriate way, and ensure every child feels seen, valued, and celebrated for who they are.
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Topics Covered:
- Why siblings of children with dyslexia often feel overlooked and resentful, and what you can do to help them feel seen [1:03]
- The ways dyslexia can affect the entire family system, and the unexpected impact it has on typically developing siblings [1:31]
- How a child's role as the "easy one" can lead to them taking on inappropriate responsibilities and hiding their own academic success [1:52]
- What resentment and perfectionism in adulthood can reveal about the lasting impact of growing up with a dyslexic sibling [3:06]
- Strategies for giving appropriate attention to each child by understanding the difference between equal and fair [4:09]
- How open communication and celebrating each child's unique strengths can build a balanced and supportive family [5:30]
Key Takeaways
- Dyslexia affects the entire family, not just the child who has it.
- It’s important to understand that the "easy" child has needs, too.
- The key to a balanced family isn't giving every child the exact same amount of attention, but rather giving each child the appropriate attention and support they need as an individual.
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